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Hello to new friend
hedonia!
Happy birthday to
ariadnesthread, AKA Missy Lee!
Sometimes, I really love my life.
So. Buffy Night last night. We had a near-constant flow of friends arriving...
glenn5,
blueingenue and
libidoergosum,
notsosilent and her roommate Melissa, whose LJ name I have forgotten, and
adric. There was much cuddling. Much rubbing. I may have recruited Melissa, who fit right in, for
libidoergosum's massage harem. And I got all of the men to show us their underpants. All in all, a very fun evening. And it was about damn time we got a new Gilmore Girls and Smallville, too, though SV was mostly lacking in the HoYay; I had to make up my own dialogue again.
Hi, I'm Captain Oblivious, nice to meet you.
Okay. So. I know when a guy is interested in me. I almost-always know. Guys, if you're not sure I know, ask me, 'k? But girls.... my girldar is broken. I can never tell if the woman in question is just being silly friendflirty or if she might be receptive to more. And this drives me crazy. And there are people who other people say are interested in me, but I don't want to make a move based on that, just in case they're overestimating the person's interest.
So be assured that if you are female and interested and have not yet requested me naked as a birthday present and/or kissed me, I have no clue that you're interested. So. Um. Please tell me? Pretty please? Because I might be interested back. But I'm shy with girls.
And he's laaaaarge....
And on the topic of guys... writing the Fenris/Jessa scenes last night, I was reminded again of how I tend to contrast my smaller female characters with my larger male characters.
I like large men. And that's not an exclusionary thing - one of my top three best lovers of all time was 5'5" (otherAdam, for the curious), and I've dated guys ranging in height from 5'3" to 6'4". But there is something about a large man. Particularly nice big hands. If you can span my back with one of your hands, then yes, looking at you is going to send me to my Happy Place.
Health
I'm no longer half-dead. Still have the awful jaw pressure, but it's not really bugging me unless my top and bottom teeth way in the back right corner touch. Which means I still can't chew. But at least I'm *mostly* functional. And this is the second full day of the antibiotics, so it should improve soon...
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Hi, I'm Captain Oblivious, nice to meet you.
Okay. So. I know when a guy is interested in me. I almost-always know. Guys, if you're not sure I know, ask me, 'k? But girls.... my girldar is broken. I can never tell if the woman in question is just being silly friendflirty or if she might be receptive to more. And this drives me crazy. And there are people who other people say are interested in me, but I don't want to make a move based on that, just in case they're overestimating the person's interest.
So be assured that if you are female and interested and have not yet requested me naked as a birthday present and/or kissed me, I have no clue that you're interested. So. Um. Please tell me? Pretty please? Because I might be interested back. But I'm shy with girls.
And he's laaaaarge....
And on the topic of guys... writing the Fenris/Jessa scenes last night, I was reminded again of how I tend to contrast my smaller female characters with my larger male characters.
I like large men. And that's not an exclusionary thing - one of my top three best lovers of all time was 5'5" (otherAdam, for the curious), and I've dated guys ranging in height from 5'3" to 6'4". But there is something about a large man. Particularly nice big hands. If you can span my back with one of your hands, then yes, looking at you is going to send me to my Happy Place.
Health
I'm no longer half-dead. Still have the awful jaw pressure, but it's not really bugging me unless my top and bottom teeth way in the back right corner touch. Which means I still can't chew. But at least I'm *mostly* functional. And this is the second full day of the antibiotics, so it should improve soon...