You are NOT thoughtless, self-centered or an idiot, or at least if you are you've done a really good job hiding it all for the several years I've known you.
You may have done something thoughtless today though. If so, apologize and make amends as best you can. Even the best of friends makes mistakes once in a while.
Going to bed, on the other hand, sounds like a good idea. I need to do it soon too.
You're not. And you know it. You had a bad day; it happens. Should've seen me crying in the Albertsons parking lot the other day, with me and Chris yelling full tilt at each other...because Chris was in a pissy mood, for no reason, and I finally couldn't deal with it anymore. We'd finished our shopping, so I left him with the cart to get the groceries and walked out. He followed me, though, and we had a yelling match in the parking lot, then I cried, and then he settled down and hugged me and apologized. We got our groceries and then had a fabulously tender evening together.
Did he hurt my feelings? Hell, yes. Was he a thoughtless, self-centered idiot? No, he was just in a bad mood, and it's OKAY for him to have a bad mood. I wish he wouldn't have taken it out on me, but we got it worked out.
::::::::::::ZEN HUGS::::::::::::
You're loved, sweetie, by a hell of a lot of people. You know that.
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your a good friend, even if you may have hurt thier feelings, I am sure they will forgive you.
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a cat paws hug.
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You may have done something thoughtless today though. If so, apologize and make amends as best you can. Even the best of friends makes mistakes once in a while.
Going to bed, on the other hand, sounds like a good idea. I need to do it soon too.
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You're not. And you know it. You had a bad day; it happens. Should've seen me crying in the Albertsons parking lot the other day, with me and Chris yelling full tilt at each other...because Chris was in a pissy mood, for no reason, and I finally couldn't deal with it anymore. We'd finished our shopping, so I left him with the cart to get the groceries and walked out. He followed me, though, and we had a yelling match in the parking lot, then I cried, and then he settled down and hugged me and apologized. We got our groceries and then had a fabulously tender evening together.
Did he hurt my feelings? Hell, yes. Was he a thoughtless, self-centered idiot? No, he was just in a bad mood, and it's OKAY for him to have a bad mood. I wish he wouldn't have taken it out on me, but we got it worked out.
::::::::::::ZEN HUGS::::::::::::
You're loved, sweetie, by a hell of a lot of people. You know that.
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