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[shadesong]

...because what it comes down to is, as bellacrow reminded me... my energy is a precious commodity. Not everyone deserves it. I need to be more discriminating in who I devote energy to. I'm working on that...


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*hug*

[songwind.livejournal.com]

Good call. It's hard sometimes to make that sort of decision - I'm glad you're looking out for yourself.

Re: *hug*

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Thanks... I was responding to her insults and accusations and random melodrama when I had the epiphany - she isn't worth it. Why am I letting gutter trash raise my heart rate like this? So. Out. No time for that sort of person in my life.

Really, I need to start listening to my real friends, all of whom despised her at first sight. I just... I keep being open, wide open, to everyone, wanting to help everyone. And it turns out that this is someone who doesn't want help, she just wants attention. Which is something that my friends knew a long time ago...

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[ex-ilk.livejournal.com]

Bingo!

Isn't it great to have friends that tell it to you like it is?

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

It really, really is. :)