Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 02:10 pm
Many of these are sex questions. I'll cut-tag those so [livejournal.com profile] farren's eyes don't bleed.

I want things to change, but I fear change. Am I nuts?
Honey, if we ever do define "normal", I'm pretty sure that'll be part of the base definition.

Does your popularity astonish you at times?
Astonish and disturb. Yes. I wasn't popular in school, and I have no idea where the net-popularity thing came from, so I'm... not prepared for it. It's very weird. (Also? You are really, really hot, and it is a damn shame you live nowhere near Atlanta or Boston.)

what comic book do you find reading more these days?
We read tons of comics! Fables is a particular favorite. I'm still addicted to the concept of Exiles, even though it's... it has not jumped the shark, but it's sort of ambling around saying "Dude, check it out. Shark. Think we should? Huh. I dunno." More on this later...

If someone harms your love, and your love forgives them and trusts them and returns to their arms, do you have to forgive them and trust them too?
You may be asking the wrong person. I think you're supposed to forgive and trust them. But I don't tend to. It's not up to me whether or not someone gets forgiven, but if you harm someone I love, I am not going to trust you. Then again, I'm the girl with the metaphorical flaming sword in my hand...

Are you [Spooky's name for me] and is she Spooky? 'Cause that's a happy thing.
Yes. Yesyesyes. And it is. :) *bounce*

was it good?
The happy fun with the new person referenced in prior post? Oh, yes. I want to ride that ride again! *grin* He agrees.

You're in quite the flirty mood today, aren't you?
I am flirty enough to be outright dangerous, I am.

So now that you aren't with docorion and are still moving to Boston, does that mean you'll be getting a job when you move there?
No. We actually hadn't been planning on moving in with him for some time now, so this isn't a plan-alteration.


Ok - have you ever been so turned on that you came while at work?
Heh. Um - hell no.

Have you ever had an orgasm from a spanking alone?
Ummm... yes. /little voice (And he's probably going to e-mail me right after seeing this, too. *laugh*)

What do you look for in girlies?
Same thing I look for in men - brains, wit, heart. Body-wise... part of my problem with my weight loss is that I am now of a body type I find very unattractive, that being the Eat A Fucking Sandwich body type. I like girls with curves!

A secret? You have to bend over first... ;)
That's not a question, but I'm addressing it anyway. Honey? For you? Anytime. Come on down.

Do you need to use more lube if your lover hasn't done enough foreplay? That is my take on this question.
Are you asking me, or are you redefining the poll? If you're asking me - I've only ever had to use lube for vaginal sex with CubitMan. And our bodies were just insanely out of proportion to each other. I've never ever had to use it for vaginal sex otherwise. ("Vaginal sex" sounds so clinical. But it's an important distinction. Not needing lube for vaginal sex is almost a point of pride for me, but nothing is *ever* going up my butt without a generous amount of lube, if at all.)

what's the longest you've ever gone without any sex? No, seriously, none at all...
Um. I doooon't know. Not more than a few months.

Is there a secret to your ability to maintain (at least some of) your sex drive through everything you've been through? With all the health stuff and emotional stress, I'm amazed.
I've always had a very high sex drive in general. The maintaining of it through the stress... I absolutely require touch-comfort when I'm stressed out. Which can be anything from being held and having my hair petted to, well, sex. And with the sex, sometimes I need gentleness, sometimes I need... well. Rather a bit of strictness, harshness. But touch comfort is always a Good Thing, and sex = orgasms = me feeling good. With the health stuff... now that my body's a bit tapped out, I fall asleep right afterward sometimes, which I never used to do. There are days when my body's too exhausted for sex - thank goodness there aren't many of them!

When was the last time you had a wet dream?
Is this defined as sheets being wet when I awake? If so, never...

Which is more fun for you- to go down on or be gone down on?
One of the crappiest ways my meds have affected my life: they've made it more difficult for me to orgasm. The first time, at least. I still go on the same track of frequent multiple orgasms after I go off the first time. (Exception being Keppra, on which I could not come AT ALL, ever. Total nightmare.) This has impacted the oral sex thing. I've always been way more into penetration than clitoral stimulation, and now that it's a bit more difficult... it still feels really good, but I'm going to get frustrated if you won't resurface and give me some cock already. Or at least fingers. Fellatio, on the other hand, I absolutely get cravings for. Sub thing? Maybe. But ohhhh yes.
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 07:58 pm (UTC)
We read tons of comics! Fables is a particular favorite. I'm still addicted to the concept of Exiles, even though it's... it has not jumped the shark, but it's sort of ambling around saying "Dude, check it out. Shark. Think we should? Huh. I dunno." More on this later


More, PLEASE!
It's be a dog's age that I have heard a female or any person talk comics.
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 08:00 pm (UTC)
Have you ever read the Ironwood comics? *devious happy smile* You know, nerd gamerisims and meaningless sex scenes cut with dirty humor?
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 08:06 pm (UTC)
I haven't! Must look into that.
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 08:12 pm (UTC)
Oh they are drawn beautifully too. No cheap cartoon porn there. Nope! I'll findyou some more info on it if you need me to. (it's only two books, and perhaps 14 to 16 issues long.)
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 08:16 pm (UTC)
This should set you in the right direction.
http://www.hootisland.com/reviews/comics/willingham_ironwood.html
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 08:49 pm (UTC)
You know they're by Bill Willingham, right?
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 08:50 pm (UTC)
Erm, and you probably did, since the last comment linked to info. Never mind. :-)
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 08:56 pm (UTC)
define "normal"

I got my sister this book that is called, Normal is Just A Setting on The Dryer.

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbnInquiry.asp?userid=bh7wkHxCHX&isbn=0760765324&itm=2

It has great little blurbs to live by.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 01:52 am (UTC)
What a great book title.
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 09:18 pm (UTC)
Wow...I kept thinking I was weird because I didn't enjoy either giving or receiving oral that much...I have that same mentality of "only turn me on if plan to shove a cock in me"...
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:11 pm (UTC)
Yeah. Nothing else quite satisfies. Need penetration!
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 09:20 pm (UTC)
I doubt loving fellatio is necessarily a sub thing. I see how it could be for other people, but for me, it's always always ALWAYS been an expression of dominance, and I go into a very dominant mindset while doing it. I can feel sub at other times. Just not then.

And I get cravings, too. After giving head, it's kind of hard not to actually purr with satisfaction... "You are now mine, aren't you? Yes, you are. There's a good boy."
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 04:04 am (UTC)
I am SO with you on that one. Like whoa. And here I thought I was the only one!
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 08:26 pm (UTC)
*hi-5* ;)

Shall we charter up a Dominant Cocksuckers Club?
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 09:27 pm (UTC)
(On the general subject of sex and meds.) I am sure I'm not the only one to have observed that an anti-depressant that makes orgasm impossible is a self-defeating medication.
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 09:47 pm (UTC)
Excellent! Big, happy smiles all 'round.
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 09:53 pm (UTC)
Yes!

It's not really hard to figure out if you know both of us, and it's not really meant to be...
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 10:19 pm (UTC)
Well, I have to say that it suddenly struck me (smack!) and left me smiling off and on for the whole weekend.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:16 pm (UTC)
*grin*

Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 09:49 pm (UTC)
Is it because of the "world tours" they're doing? It was kind of neat seeing the New Universe again. I've never read 2099 though so I feel really lost. I guess it does kind of feel like the sharks are circling.

I was disappointed we never saw JMS' Hyperion, but I guess that serisouly would've messed up his story.
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 11:31 pm (UTC)
I'm mostly just tired of the constant chasing around after Proteus, and I only started picking it up because of the NU tie-in. There's only so many times you can watch Proteus be Bigger and Badder and everyone else be clueless.

However, incorporating even a lame-ass version of Longshot, and the resultant Mojo bit, helped a little.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:41 pm (UTC)
*nods* Blah blah blah Proteuscakes. OMFG I AM SO BORED.

The House of M tie-in was irksome in itself. I'm a big Bendis fan, but I didn't like House of M. I like the result of it - that was cool and necessary and offers the opportunity for great storytelling across the Marvel U. But the miniseries itself bored me. Adam and I agree that Bendis writes great individual characters, but he falls down on team books/big casts.

Curious to see what they're going to do with 2099.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:13 pm (UTC)
I'm a big fan of Winick's original run.... and a big not-fan of Chuck Austen, who took over from Winick. The series has never truly recovered, IMO.

Hm. The thing that occurs to me off the top of my head - no one but Winick knows how to write Morph. So they don't try. First thing I'd do if I got a crack it it would be to see what I can do with him. Untapped and ignored potential.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:36 pm (UTC)
Well, my view of Morph, and forgive me because I haven't been reading from the beginning, and it's possible I missed Winick's run, is that he's like Plastic Man. He's generally there for comic relief because, really, if he were allowed to go all out, there wouldn't be need for anyone else. He's a being so powerful that if he truly utilized his powers he could kick everybody's ass.

What's Morph's story, anyway?
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:47 pm (UTC)
See, if anyone who was writing the series was thinking about him at all, you'd already know.

Wikipedia rocks and saves me time. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morph_%28comics%29)
Wednesday, January 25th, 2006 11:53 pm (UTC)
Oooh, I just discovered Fables a month or so ago and I am in loooooooove. I've got the books, not the individual comics. Love, love, love. It's just as well I'll have to wait so long for the next one, or I'd never get any homework done.

I think Fabletown would make an awesome setting for a tabletop RPG. Then again, I am a giant geek.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:41 pm (UTC)
I would totally play with you.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 06:58 am (UTC)
Wait, what happened with doc? Did I miss something? Damn my German work ethic.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:06 pm (UTC)
Short version: His fears were greater than his faith.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:24 pm (UTC)
Hmm a doctor with fear is one I wouldn't want near either. Oooh I'm rhyming today. I'm sorry to hear of his loss but obviously it is for the better.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:27 pm (UTC)
*nods* The last few months have been... fairly agonizing when they haven't been deceptively calm&good.
Thursday, January 26th, 2006 02:39 pm (UTC)
Well then I guess it's good to have it done with. The less stress the better I always say.