I get the message already...

[shadesong]

I am being sent some pretty clear messages.

a. I should not be getting into D/s, because whenever I get close to having the potential to do so, something goes Horribly Wrong.

b. I need to get back into practice, spiritually. First iroshi, now elorie and mightywombat, all in my life and potentially working with me... okay already! I hear you!

So fine. I'm listening. :)

Comments

[gothwalk.livejournal.com]

From my own point of view: good to hear it. Or, rather, good to hear that you're listening. And, while not being in the area, I'm always willing to discuss Weird Pagan Shit^TM. :)

Is that a decision not to pursue the D/s stuff any more, or just an acknowledgement of receipt of message?

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

Read my other post on D/s... I think I may be able to get what I need in different ways. And I know, you're totally on my Weird Pagan Shit call-list. :)

[gothwalk.livejournal.com]

I saw that - wasn't sure if it was in consideration territory or decision territory, if you catch the drift.

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

Ah. Yes. I am currently not pursuing a D/s relationship thingie.

[mightywombat.livejournal.com]

You totally almost told him he was on your Weird Pagan Shit list, didn't you?

*chuckles*

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

I totally almost did. You know me well....


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[eudaimonia.livejournal.com]

I think this is very cool :-) The trance meditation stuff is incredibly helpful (even though I don't have the same kind of issues as you - it's a wonderful tool). I've been thinking about getting into it again, myself. I even have a friend who's interested in doing it with me now.

[entropic-om.livejournal.com]

Everything appears when you need it. Heh...seriously tho. It's very cool that you know enough about yourself to make definitive decisions.
(and getting back to spirit is never a bad thing ;p)

p.s. - I'm open for weird pagany stuff too. ;)

[metaphorge.livejournal.com]

I need to get back into practice, spiritually.

Good... you are aware of the fact that I live for WeirdPaganyShit, yes?

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

Yah. Come back home!

[wolfieboy.livejournal.com]

Coolness. You might've gathered from some of my stuff that I'm into that Pagan woowoo stuff as well...

[darkmattr.livejournal.com]

A) Good
B) Good

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

You back? Door's open...

[darkmattr.livejournal.com]

No.

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

*shrug* Your decision.

[laffinggod.livejournal.com]

I will assume your first relationship(s) as a teenager went incredibly well, with all coming up roses and no pain involved.

Or did you have to experience and learn as everyone else did?

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

I will assume your first relationship(s) as a teenager went incredibly well, with all coming up roses and no pain involved.

Heh. No.




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[laffinggod.livejournal.com]

Then I guess you understand my point.

[iroshi.livejournal.com]

If she does, I don't. And I'm exceedingly curious what connection you see between assuming her first relationship went swimmingly (and oh my GODS that was a bad assumption) and a post which only states that she's no longer looking for a D/s relationship, and she's going to be focusing more on spirituality than she had been.

I would suggest you learn more about the person you're speaking with before making comments that require assumptions, really, in general...

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[laffinggod.livejournal.com]

Her post intoned she was 'not longer seeking D/s' due to a 'bad event' on the first try.

Is ANYONE to give up ANYTHING simply because of a 'bad event on the first try' ?

If that was the case, then by your own words of her first relationship, she would never have had another relationship ever, in any form.

And I doubt many of us would have had sex past the first time.

I stated the truth. Judging something soley by your 'first experience' is not a way to make a decision.

You obviously either misunderstood or misread my comment.

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[iroshi.livejournal.com]

Her post intoned she was 'not longer seeking D/s' due to a 'bad event' on the first try.

Actually, no, it didn't. Read again. It said, "whenever I get close to having the potential to do so, something goes Horribly Wrong." That implies multiple instances, which is, in fact, the case.

I stated the truth. Judging something soley by your 'first experience' is not a way to make a decision.
You obviously either misunderstood or misread my comment.

Umm. Well, that would have been a good statement to make. If you had, in fact, made it. You didn't. It would have made your point, based on incorrect data as it was, much *clearer*, if no more accurate.

Again, I come away with the clear impression that you really don't know 'song very well, and politely suggest that *advisory* commentary shouldn't be posted on a person's journal until you've read at least a little ways back in their journal and learned a bit about them.

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

Her post intoned she was 'not longer seeking D/s' due to a 'bad event' on the first try.

Ah. No. There have been many many tries, all blowing up in my face, save one, which ended in 2000.

[nukewolf.livejournal.com]

From what I've gathered, you're right on the D/s stuff. You can get what you're looking for without going into it, though other folks might argue that the very idea you're looking after requires it. I'd call those people boobs. :)

[shadesong.livejournal.com]

Heh. You said "boobs". :)